according to urban dictionary.com bad bitch (n) - totally mentally gifted and usually also fine as hell.
so not only do i have to be well gifted in certain things and have to be very fine but on top of it all i got to be a bitch too. what ever happen to women who are on their grind everyday paying their bills, being providers for their kids, going to college, making something of themselves. would they be considered "bad bitches"?? i think in our generation people tend to praise the wrong things, beauty is typically the number one thing and how a females mind works in always last or never even thought about. i see all the time how a young female college student would quickly change herself to fit in with society standards of acceptance. and its so easy to fall into all of that because its everywhere we go, in our media, and of course in our music. its like having a big ass and sassy attitude to match is the cool thing to have on a mans arm. honestly it shouldn't be that way..... granted we all want to look good and feel good and most importantly be treated well. but some females take everything they have and disrespect themselves just for a man and they shouldn't have to do that. start with making yourself feel good, diva if you will, dont allow someone to slap a label on you just because. know your worth and understand you are worth more then what the standards of beauty say you are. you can be "bad" loving yourself and doing what makes you happy.
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